Sugasm #144

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.

This Week’s Picks

Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”?

“The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better succeed.”

First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship

“The only real trouble with being a triad came from the world around us.”

Sex Work And Compassion: Panty Tree

“I will never feel shame for being a sex worker.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

I Meet the Business End of Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy

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Bedroom Radio #21: Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net

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Bedroom Radio #20: Get Spanked with Rachel Kramer Bussel

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Bedroom Radio #19: Erotica from Rough Words and Ellie is Tied Up and Tortured

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Sugasm #140

Looks like I've made the top 3 spots on Sugasm this week. Isn't that special? ;) Oh, and Fleshbot has a picture of me fellating a sex toy. You know, because I'm classy like that.

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”

“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word


“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment

”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

Chill Pleasure

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Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet

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Sugasm #137

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #138? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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I can only be what I am.

“It’s strangely refreshing, to really submit and give up that control, and not have to make decisions.”

Over the Edge

“He tells me to hold still, in that soft, controlling voice of his.”

A Story Told Out of Order and Out of Character - Part 4

“You thought you could just come to my room and tease me?”

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Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

A former slut examined

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Sugasm #135

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #136? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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The Angel and the Devil

“Upon looking at my creamy white and feeling my soft lips you would think I am an angel.”

How To Approach A Dominant Woman


“Wrong way: Perhaps you know me from my blog….”

Intimate

“Lying back so the full aura from the lamp lights the area in question, I spread my legs and let him see.”

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Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

How does one trust?

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What About The Johns? (An Audio Plea)

Download Bedroom Radio 16.5: An Open Call to Clients of Sex Workers

I was so happy to see this article from Violet Blue that has an in depth discussion of the clients that keep sex workers, well, working.

Another excellent resource on this topic is the great Letters from Johns blog that is run by the amazing Susannah Breslin. The blog is a brilliant concept exercised with simplicity and grace. I just wish there were more letters. They range from clueless to compassionate and everything in-between.

Honestly, I gave up on writing this entry a few minutes into it and recorded a podcast instead. Please download it - it is my thoughts on sex work and clients and the interactions between them. It is based on limited experience. I am sure I said some things that will offend people. I didn't mean to but I want to start a discourse on sex work that includes the voices of clients as clients.

My email address is lumpesse AT gmail DOT com and the number to call with your ideas is 206-339-5939. (To be 100% clear, this is not my phone sex line - it is just a voicemail box, it won’t cost you anything beyond long distance and your time and I won’t answer the phone).

I really want to collect audio so you can leave it as a voicemail or email it to me. Or upload it on your own blog or talk about it on your own podcast. I do plan to make another show (or more! many?) out of the comments that I get so if you don't want your comment included, please state that very clearly in your message to me. Please pass on the word about this to anyone you can think of that might be interested.

Download Bedroom Radio 16.5: An Open Call to Clients of Sex Workers

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Sugasm #133

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #134? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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Giving a Damn

“Something happened somewhere along the way, though. I began to care.”

Catalina loves “Better Sex Through Yoga”


“I’ve tried a lot of things, as you can imagine, but there were even a few new things in there for me!”

Reality Check: Dealing With Assholes

“Being able to decline a call is great but bills still need to be paid.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

The Secret Lives of Plants

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Sugasm #130


The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #131? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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Gross Spelling Errors Turn Me Off

“Here are a few other word issues that come up in sex writing that throw me off and drive me crazy.”

L’Artiste

“I want time to sip my whisky, to drink you in as you unveil yourself, as you offer your body to my steady gaze.”

Learning My Limits (Part 1)

“It hurts. It’s gorgeous. ”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

24-Months of AVN Online, $0

Editor’s Choice

The Few, The Proud, The Pornless

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